The Enemy of My Enemy

The enemy of my enemy is my friend, that's what we've been taught, and that's what we know as a fact that we have more friends than we think we had. The second coined phrase is my enemy's enemy is my friend, so, use whichever you want.

Why we have enemy? First of all, dispute, believe it or not, we have more friends than we think we did from this proverb, but the only problem is this, how about the friend of our enemy? Can they be our friend too? Some horrible people would always try to lure the friends to go against their enemy so that they can become the other's enemy too, in another word to be your friend. This is a hypocritical way to do things, but believe it, it happened. Some people just are that mean.

I do not want to generalized a gender, but some said women have more enemies, they like to spread gossips, and people would believe them, they can extend their head out the window or just meet another soul in the w.c. and start talking about a bad thing someone did at some god forsaken place. It's true, what they say, that alcohol is a social lubricant, but when it comes to women, they will meet a friend through gossips. If a guy cheats on a woman, he'll not be associated with anyone in the group of woman, there will be one big stamp on their forehead "enemy". If the guys cheat another woman not from that circle of friends, the hate network will grow exponentially, so to such guys, you're just so unlucky. 

It's harder for guys to made enemy, only when it comes to money and women, there might be a little tension, but things will be settled somehow. 

To think of it, if we have one enemy, we gain a few hundred new friends, so, rather than be 'outspoken', so, isn't having an enemy better for some reason?

If you are wondering, I don't know who my enemies are, but there is always someone out there might hate me. So, instead of thinking about it, I just ignore that, and live my life to the fullest!